Archive for November, 2008

Emerge Through Emergency

Thursday, November 27th, 2008

Emerge through Emergency- the words are my constant companions of late, flickering thoughts trying to chase fear away.

(The following is an extract with additions from a letter to a friend written on Saturday 22nd November 2008.)

My daughter Nat’s very last ever school function was last night and it has been a very emotional week for both of us. I am exhausted. Doing the single parent thing has been a big task for me, and I am really glad that part is over..at the same time sad for we have such a beautiful and close relationship. (Much of my emotion is because of the huge burden I have felt raising a child solo-managing a career as a self-employed person.)

My business has been very badly affected by this global burp. I have been planning for my new life for the last 6 months, doing much more virtual based work, building a powerful web presence, writing more; however, with my focus on this and the universe pushing me to let go, I have been watching in almost morbid fascination as long term clients leave, and new ones are not materialising like they always have. My bank account is getting very skinny. Terrifyingly so. Emerge though emergency ..I hear whispering in my head.

 

So my days seem almost manic depressive…tinges of outright fear, followed by intense action and overall optimism. Emerge though emergency. The core of me knows all is well and this is all so fabulous for me. The daily reality can be scary. I have really recognised just how solo this journey for me has felt- I look at people like you who have such great partnerships and I really wonder how nice that would be. Yet at the same time, I have known at some core place of my being, that that was not my path. My path is to find the resourcefulness within myself, to not need a man to provide for me in the physical world. To really accept fully that I can create and survive. However it is nearing time for me to be able to accept emotional support and partnership in my life. I have been reading the poems of the great mystics every day, and gasp at their ecstatic love for God. I want that, either for God, or a mortal man. Quite truthfully I would prefer it with a mortal man, because I also want the physical side. But I am not willing to settle for less. I have travelled too far for too long–now does not seem the time to compromise. I feel quite certain it is possible, because I have loved like that before. Now to have that matched in return? Wow! Dare I think it? The time is not quite right, I need to find myself apart from the person who is responsible for a child. But it is soon. Or not.

 

I have been getting 3-6 hrs sleep a night, most uncharacteristic for me…simply waking knowing that any attempt at further sleep is useless. I don’t feel tired. However, the good side is that I am still fit, maybe a bit skinny, and have finally admitted that I have not got a clue how to have fun. Nat of course only knows how to have fun. Work is an anathema to her. I need to re-learn how to have fun. I love my work, and feel grateful for my days of work, and…I work pretty much seven days a week, with an occasional movie thrown in. 

 

My gleeful fun this last two weeks has been to read the Twilight series. The tragedy of it is that I have fallen in love with a vampire. Ah…the folly of being human. Sad, so sad..but true. I can only laugh!

 

Thursday November 27th 2008- Emerge through emergency….

 

During this time I have felt more awake and conscious than I have in years, if at all. It is a truthful experience of emergence through emergency. There is quite literally a birthing taking place. For a very long time I have felt asleep. Drifting. While it is quite a nice feeling, there is no tingling aliveness to it. (Even though people constantly tell me I am so energetic.)

 

I am also aware that I do not want to become addicted to the adrenalin rush  of this experience. But the sense of urgency has been so loud..completely stimulated by the need to emerge through emergency.

 

A part of me is also filled with doubt. Will I be able to pull this off? Will I be able to create? Thinking about that brings in the fear. So I either return to massive action, or I find a place to surrender. Mostly I try to do both. Let go, let God, and stay in action. Emerge through emergency….

 

In the early days of my single parenting I can remember when the fear of survival financially was so overwhelming I had difficulty breathing, and the only way out of it was to lie naked on the floor with my arms and legs spread, the single most vulnerable physical position I could find, and breath through it. Emerge through emergency. To this day there are times that I do the same action in my mind.

 

I think often of my mentor and guide, and the person who inspired this blog, and coined the phrase, “emerge through emergency”, Buckminster Fuller. He set the example. I wonder if he lived in complete trust and faith, or if he doubted like I do? I feel so weak in my faith when the doubt is that strong. 

 

My constant prayer is to be used- for my skills and gifts to be used in the most valuable way possible. Of course, in exchange I would like a really hot salary! I know that true surrender is giving any expectation up, including that!

 

So its back to create, create, create. And emerge through emergency.

 

Share

Massive Action Now

Wednesday, November 26th, 2008

Why Massive Action Now? If you are like most people, you are feeling the earth shifting under your feet, unsure about your next step and whether it will land on solid ground. Having a sense of security is becoming an elusive memory. Uncertainty rules the day. Even if you are in a very secure situation, you cannot but help feel the whisper of the winds of big change. It will touch us all, in some way.

This present time is offering a new experience that makes most of us feel uncomfortable. What will tomorrow bring is a question that is on the lips of many. 

All of this, no matter what your circumstances. 

 

*For those who have a solid foundation of wealth, you will certainly have seen some diminishment in your asset base. Depending on your outlook, this is either mildly alarming, or very worrying. You worked hard for those assets.

 

*For those who hold employment, you watch as people around you are made redundant, and you wonder just how safe is your job? The fear in the corporate culture is very loud. Some of you are already on the sidelines, seeking new opportunity.

 

*For those small business owners and entrepreneurs, you are either in a business that is thriving, and you are feeling extremely grateful, or you are watching with morbid fascination as your business shrinks before your eyes. 

 

No matter where you are placed, now is the time for re-evaluation. To ignore re-evaluation is to put your head in the sand and pretend that it will all return to the previous place where you felt safe and certain. Massive Action Now is needed.

 

Life rarely goes back. While we may go back to the horse and buggy, it will only be temporary and the roads and infrastructure are very different from previous times. The sudden rise in the cost of fuel had one great aspect to it. It raised our awareness that the future of an oil based economy is going along the path of the dinosaurs. In our lifetime, probably.

 

The only thing we can count on right now, is the uncertainty. Imagine living with massive uncertainty as a familiar? Part of the everyday fabric of life? What adjustments would you need to make?

 

Life rarely goes back. The future does not look like the present. We have a confluence of events that guarantees massive change. The breakdown in the financial system is only one of the events. The extreme stress our thoughtless actions have placed on the environment is another event that cannot be ignored. No matter how far or near we are to peak oil, the way we travel from place to place has to change. How we live our lives has to change. Where we place our value has to change. The vast difference in rich and poor is creating fault lines that will not be placated by mere diplomacy and revised boundary lines. This has to change.

 

From the place of the symbolic, everything is perfect. The earth is screaming to be heard. No longer content with a whisper, her song is enraged. Humanity has for too long been raping and pillaging in a greedy frenzy. We have come far, and yet are now at the epi-centre of our rebellious teens– self-centred, narcissistic and ravenous for more stuff. It is time to grow up. To take the mantle of the adult, responsible, considerate, desiring to invest in the future.

 

No matter who you are, it is time for Massive Action Now

 

1. We must each of us start with a radical review of self. What is the truth about us now, in this moment?  What exactly is our current circumstance? 

Are we healthy? 

Are we vital?

Do we have any self regulation around consumption of everything-food, alcohol, shopping, TV?

How are our finances?

What is our reputation and brand?

Are our relationships in order?

What mess are we ignoring in our own lives?

How do we imprint on our environment?

How educated are we? Enough? Too much? 

Our career…have we adapted ourselves to the future?

Do we offer value that meets the future?

Have we branded ourselves so that people who need to know, know?

Do we have resilience built into our systems? Our selves?

Are we buried in patterns that keep up asleep at the wheel? Too much TV, trashy magazine’s, food and alcohol?

Do we lie to ourselves and others?

What are we not telling the truth about?

Have we seen a drop in business, not too serious but going down?

Or are we in serious trouble, be it financially, health wise, in our relationships, or at work?

 

2. Starting with the NOW, and looking ourselves clearly in the eye, we move to consider our assets.

What are our assets-both physical and non physical? Bricks and mortar, debts. Plus our knowledge, experience and abilities? Our energy, and health?

What is our value to the world, and how do we express that uniquely?

Does our value offering meet the needs of now and the future? Are we actually redundant? Extraneous- doing work that contributes either little value or is no longer valued, or rapidly loosing value? 

What assets do we have that we cannot see have value? Ask others. 

What are people constantly acknowledging you for?

What if you could offer your assets to 10 times the people you do so now? 100 times? 1000 times?

How would you do this? Would your systems cope with the increase? Do you have that level of adaptability and flexibility?

How are you leveraging technology?

What changes have you made in the last 5 years? Low to medium change probably means you are likely to be left behind sooner than later.

 

3. And looking to the future. There are incredible opportunities, whole new industries about to be birthed, new tools and technology to be created, implemented and supported. 

How engaged are you in the conversation of the future? Are you even looking? And if so, is your view clean and clear? Do you constantly look at the future and your current value offering and ask if one needs the other? How much time do you send with friends and colleagues discussing future scenario’s?

What opportunities are you not seeing?

Marrying your highest value offering with the needs of the future will ensure you have a vital future! That you will be sort out, and paid well.

Whether you are an employee, or self employed, you simply cannot afford to NOT look at these questions. If you do not take Massive Action Now and re-evaluate your own life, immediately, you will be lost in the turmoil of uncertainty. You will be left behind, you will be redundant.

 

Indeed, taking Massive Action Now is the only way to get things moving.

 

“Nothing happens until something moves- quoted Albert Einstein.” 

 

Taking Massive Action Now can look like;

*rebranding yourself in your career

*moving home to a more sustainable environment

*learning a new skill

*creating a new business product

*finding an employer who matched your values

*re-tooling your home to be more green

*selling your car for a more economical one

*getting out of debt quickly

*getting into health

*getting into community work

*using technology in a smarter way

*volunteering to causes that speak to you

*getting fully into the game

*learning what happens in the full circle of the products you buy and use, and taking responsibility for that

*researching the future trends and adapting yourself to meet the future head on

 

Ask yourself “Do you want to be left behind, or are you up for the future and all the opportunity it holds?” Can I afford not to take Massive Action Now?

Just imagine for a moment that what we have today, at the close of 2008, is going to get 4 to 5 times worse in the next 8 months. 

If you were certain about this, what would you do differently today? (And even if this bleak outlook didn’t happen, and you did take massive action now, you would be better off.)

This is the question behind taking Massive Action Now. Not to leave you paralyzed in fear, but to provoke you to look and respond. Today!

 

Christine McDougall is offering a very unique package around taking Massive Action Now. 

Email Christine Christine@syzergy.biz for more information or visit

www.positive-deviant.com/massive-action-now.html

 

Share

Leadership Development and the Future of Business

Wednesday, November 12th, 2008

What is the Future of Business and why is Leadership Development important? Well, since I am not a psychic nor of divine providence, I, like you, can only guess. However, there are some clear writings on the multitude of walls around the world. Here are some of the writings I am seeing clearly written.

 

1. BIG changes are in place. We are not rearranging the deck chairs on the Titanic, not this time. No amount of tinkering will allow a return to the status quo. We are in process of seismic shifts. 

 

2. Seismic shifts require a NEW mindset. However, is is not about ejecting the old in entirety, but taking from the old and transcending to the new. In order to do this we need to reconnect with the very purpose of business. What is it there for? Is it just a venue to create big money for a small group of people? Is it to take advantage of times, events and circumstances-to rape and pillage? Why was business created? For what reason? Does the model we have now work? Is it good for us for tomorrow? How committed is our company to leadership development and why? 

 

Show me the leaders with the new mindset? Certainly they are not the ex CEO of Lehman Brothers. Maybe we could look at some of the young guys behind Google, MySpace? And how is their mindset different? Do they thirst for leadership development that builds not just growth, but perspective and width?

 

3. The business model we have now is flawed and the flaws are finally showing cracks. How do I know this. Well, here are a few of the cracks. 

 

The gap between the rich and the poor is getting wider every day. Plus, less people are in the wealthy group. What is good about this model? Not much, unless you are one of those 3-5% of the wealthy.

 

We are going through accelerated acceleration, where our technology is changing each second. However, the business of business has not really changed in 400 years. Show me one other institution that could say the same? Marriage, Monarchy, the Democratic process? Our leadership model has also largely stayed the same. The system is designed around a hierarchy, which is not bad but could be far more integrative, moving to a holarchical system-similar to complex biological systems. (The human body does do a pretty good job in managing complex functions)

 

Making money from money without any contribution of any kind in the form of work-be it physical, mental, or spiritual, is a sham. Multiply zero by zero and we get zero. Nothing comes from nothing. However, this little game has been in play for many years, and now we are beginning to see the truth of it. The future of business is about creating real value, value that adds too and has meaning.

 

Paying people to do nothing else but to show an increase in shareholder value is an extremely narrow perspective of worth. What about how they did this, who and what was stepped on or over to do this, and what are the costs-today, tomorrow, in 20 years and in 200 years? Surely at the least the CEO’s of large companies should be measured through an integrated lens that assesses profitability AND happy, fulfilled, engaged people, AND the long term effects on the environment AND the level of input to the local and greater community AND the value of overall contribution to society that their companies product adds? If the CEO’s score well on all aspects, then pay them well. But don’t pay them obscene salaries for only making money. On this note the demand for leadership development is HIGH.

 

Endless growth, year in an year out, is unsustainable. No where in nature, with the exception of cancer, does endless growth exist. And even cancer has its use-by date, when the host is consumed by the cancer. To every spring comes an autumn and winter, enabling a new spring. Keep farming the same land over and over and it will fail. This is not rocket science. We need to take time to consolidate, breath, rest. And we need to build this into our businesses consciously. Show me the business that has an integrated model that assumes growth, followed by consolidation and recovery, followed by the next level of growth. And would we, the shareholder, be happy with this? Would you be accepting of your superannuation portfolio going through growth, then a platform stage, then growth? What would you require as the shareholder to be satisfied with this model? 

 

Our system for measuring success and performance is a dud. It is mostly based on endless growth, and increasing shareholder return (whether that share holder is you bank, your investments, your spouse, or the shareholders). We need more integral methods to measure success. 

 

And by the way, who said that the work of a teacher of our children is worth so much less (extremely less) than the work of some guy who knows how to make money for the shareholder? No, I am not a socialist (for lack of a better description I would say I am a conscious capitalist)- I just question our values. The value of caring for others is rated as low. Yet if you have ever needed care you know how much you would pay to get the best. And you know just how much a good carer gives above and beyond the norm. Are they really worth so much less that the Fuld’s of the world (ex CEO of Lehman Bros.)  One of the biggest questions on the table now is what are our values and do they serve us? For until we reassess our values around our measure of success we will all be caught in the same old merry-go-round of growth and greed, and the desire for more stuff. Money is NOT the measure of success. It is only a fraction of the measure. Ask anyone who has a lot of money.   

 

4. The environment demands change. Yep, its true, whether you believe in the extremes of environmental catastrophe or not, the elephant in the room is that we must have more awareness of our every action and its effects on everything else.(Cradle to Cradle) And yes, increasing our global population is not going to help. The earth does not need one more baby. Increasing the population may be good for the short term, to keep the eternal growth engine going, but is surely is stuffing our future. We need to get creative and figure another way to take care of our elderly, keep the new jobs going, and all the other goods and services ever increasing numbers of new babies create. (I am not advocating no children, but we really don’t need more than two children per couple-unless of course you adopt one of the many children who need love and care.)

 

I could write more about any one of these topics. And I am sure I could find more writings on more walls indicating that the times they are a changing.

 

Change is a messy process. Humans usually find it mildly scary to frankly terrifying. At best we don’t like it.

 

Companies right now are slashing budgets. Trimming fat. There is a lot of fat that is good to trim. For example- executive perks like limousine services, first class,and fat bonus’s. Only recently I heard about the CEO who insisted that the very staff who had tied themselves in knots to meet target had had their Christmas Party budget slashed to the price of a cheap meal and a glass of wine, while he refused to take a taxi to the airport and insisted on waiting for a limousine. The CEO of JAL (Japanese Airlines) took a different track. He slashed his own salary, in line with other staff and took away all of his entitlements. He wants the company and its people to all pull through. So he started with himself. Which company would you prefer to work with?

 

In 1992 Bill Gates quoted in Forbes magazine “Take our 20 best people away, and I will tell you that Microsoft will become an unimportant company.”

What separates Microsoft from other companies is not its product, but its people. 

 

And it times of massive change people need support, development and input on their NEW mindset. They need leadership development and not just any kind, but the kind that speaks to the future of business.

 

Slashing the leadership development budget shows that the company is operating in the old world of business, where value is placed on the share holder return and growth and the CEO’s continued bonus scheme. In these companies at these times, the issue of people again goes to the bottom of the pile of priorities. People…people? Who are they? 

 

Quotes Rupert Murdoch in the second of his series of Boyer Lectures this past weekend, November 2008, in the midst of the worst global economic crisis is 100 years.

 

“If you want to keep your company in the lead, you need to invest in your people.”

 

Now more than ever.

 

Share